Secrets of The Adam

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If a man sending sms to you more than once each day if only to say good-eating "lunch", how are you "how are you" ..signs he's the same concern you .. for: men rarely do so if only because there is no work
Me in Scrub in Cilegon

 If a man call you for no reason and just says: "just want to hear you are .."same sign he likes you but shy to start from where .. because: The man realized that he was the one who should make first moved but was afraid to look really, if you really like to ..


If the man fell silent after a long fight,signs he's tired and wants to fight is over .. because: In principle, he does not like to linger argument, unless he's a sissy. Just 3 sentences you start a fight, he understood the anger because you ..

 If a man holds your hand or stroking your hair after a quarrel,sign that he feels guilty about upsetting .. because: The man who truly care about you, your clay will not have the heart to cry, let alone just because he's ...

 If a man leaning on the shoulders of you and ask you to stroke her hair,mark you are the only woman he loves as much as his mother ..because: He never looks weak / spoiled let alone in front of women. If he did that to you, a sign he's comfortable and confident "pride" it will not be reduced if it does that to you ..

 If a man says "what the heck is not for you?"There are two possibilities, he really likes you or he's just a real playboy. because: He wanted to know her idol, if he was ready to give time for her only. If the playboy type, usually behind the words was accompanied by praise not clear meaning.

 If a man crying in front of you, sign he is very dear to you. because: Natural man is not to cry. If he cries, there is only one word: He loves you.

 If a man often break the rules that has been created by you, signs she is not comfortable with you controlled. because: The man knows what is right and wrong and need only be directed, not forbidden. The more forbidden, the more violated.

 If a man jealous, there are four possible core:He really care about you and afraid of losing you.He's the type of possessive and controllingHe was cheating and did not want to be "compete"She had a trauma in who may not have told you ..

 If the man silent,sign he samgat mad at you. because: The man so long as "talkative" sign was still "half mad". but when it's quiet, be prepared to be the worst possible thing for your relationship if you are not aware.

 If a man tells his past badsign he tells you not to do the same. because: He is being traumatic. Simply you say: "I would not do that stupid" just once, and he would never talk about it anymore.
 
If man disappears arrived from "circulation",
signs he wants to stay away from you for one reason or another.because: He sometimes not have the heart to leave you, sometimes because of things that you yourself are not aware.Pursue him and ask why. If he does not answer, then he's a coward and deserves abandonment.

 If a man staring into your eyes,The sign he was looking for, do you really love him or merely ordinary love? because: almost every man feel unsecured in conjunction, may be traumatic or due to the influence of the surrounding environment.

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Jika Lelaki mengirimkan sms kepada kamu lebih dari sekali setiap harinya walau hanya utk mengucapkan selamat makan “lunch”, apa kabar "how are you"..
tandanya dia ada perhatian sama kamu.. karena: lelaki jarang melakukan hal tersebut kalau hanya karena tidak ada kerjaan.
Alone at my home Jakarta

Jika Lelaki menghubungi kamu tanpa sebab dan hanya bilang: “hanya ingin dengar suara kamu saja..” 
tandanya dia suka sama kamu tapi malu untuk memulai dari mana.. karena: Lelaki sadar bahwa dia lah yang harus membuat first moved tapi takut kelihatan banget jika sangat suka kepada kamu..

Jika Lelaki terdiam setelah pertengkaran panjang,
tandanya dia sudah lelah dan ingin pertengkaran ini berakhir.. karena: Pada prinsipnya, lelaki tidak suka berlama-lama bertengkar mulut, kecuali dia banci. Cukup 3 kalimat awal pertengkaran kalian, dia sudah mengerti sebab kemarahan kamu..

Jika Lelaki memegang tanganmu atau membelai rambutmu setelah pertengkaran,
tandanya dia merasa bersalah telah membuatmu marah.. karena: Lelaki yang benar-benar sayang sama kamu, tidak akan tega liat kamu menangis, apalagi hanya karena dia…

Jika Lelaki bersandar dibahumu dan memintamu membelai rambutnya,
tandanya kamu adalah satu-satunya wanita yang dia cinta sebesar cintanya kepada ibunya.. karena: Lelaki pantang terlihat lemah atau manja apalagi dihadapan wanita. Kalau dia sampai melakukan itu padamu, tandanya dia merasa nyaman dan yakin “pride”nya tidak akan berkurang jika melakukan itu pada dirimu..

Jika Lelaki mengatakan “apa sih yang tidak untuk kamu?”
Ada dua kemungkinan, dia benar-benar suka sama kamu atau dia playboy sejati. karena: Lelaki ingin sang wanita pujaan tahu, kalau dia siap memberikan waktu hanya untuknya. Kalau tipe playboy, biasanya dibelakang kata-kata itu dibarengi pujian tidak jelas maksudnya.

Jika Lelaki menangis dihadapanmu, 
tandanya dia sangat sayang sama kamu. karena: Kodrat Lelaki adalah pantang untuk menangis. Jika ia menangis, hanya ada satu kata: Dia cinta kamu.

Jika Lelaki sering melanggar aturan2 yang kamu buat,
tandanya dia gak nyaman dikendalikan sama kamu. karena: Lelaki tahu apa yg benar dan salah dan hanya butuh diarahkan, bukan dilarang. Semakin dilarang, semakin dilanggar.

Jika Lelaki cemburu, ada empat kemungkinan inti:
Dia benar sayang sama kamu dan takut kehilangan kamu.
Dia tipe posesif dan menguasai
Dia selingkuh dan tidak mau di ”saingi”
Dia punya trauma dalam yg mungkin gak pernah diceritakannya kepadamu..

Jika Lelaki diam membisu,
tandanya dia samgat marah sama kamu. karena: Lelaki selama masih “banyak bicara” tandanya masih “1/2 marah”. tapi kalau sudah diam, bersiaplah akan kemungkinan terburuk bagi hubungan kalian kalau kalian tidak aware.

Jika Lelaki bercerita masa lalunya yang buruk,
tandanya dia memberitahu kamu agar jangan melakukan hal yang sama. karena: Lelaki adalah mahluk traumatik. Cukup kalian berkata: “aku tidak akan melakukan hal sebodoh itu” sekali saja, dan dia tidak akan pernah bercerita hal itu lagi.

Jika Lelaki menghilang tiba dari “peredaran”,
tandanya dia ingin menjauh dari kamu karena satu dan lain hal. karena: Lelaki kadang gak tega untuk meninggalkan kalian, kadang karena hal yang kalian sendiri tidak sadar. Kejar dia dan tanyakan sebabnya kenapa. Kalau dia tidak jawab, berarti dia pengecut dan pantas ditinggalkan.

Jika Lelaki menatap dalam ke matamu,
Tandanya dia sedang mencari-cari jawab, apakah kalian sangat cinta kepadanya atau hanya sebatas cinta biasa saja? karena: hampir setiap Lelaki merasa unsecured dalam hubungannya, mungkin traumatik atau karena pengaruh lingkungan sekitarnya.

Sunday, February 13, 2011
Created By: Sony Kazekage Peanutgarden
Source:https://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=180385405337156